Lathyrus. It sounds like a secret from a Greek myth, doesn’t it? And in a way, it is—but one you can hold, smell, and pick yourself at several u-pick farms across the Netherlands. Also known as the sweet pea, lathyrus is that utterly charming, ruffled flower that looks like it’s wearing a tiny, satin party dress. And yes, you can go snip your own bundle. Grab a pair of garden scissors, a bucket with a splash of water, and a friend or two. It’s the kind of afternoon activity that turns into a laughter-filled photo session—because let’s be honest, you’ll all be holding bouquets like you’re in a romantic comedy.

When you’re in the field, look for stems with at least two or three open blooms and a few buds at the top. That way, your flowers keep opening at home like a slow-motion magic trick. Snip early in the morning or late in the afternoon when the air is cooler—they’ll last longer. Don’t be shy: the more you pick, the more the plant flowers. It’s practically begging you to take it home.

At home: a flower’s second life

Once you’ve got your armful of pastel pinks, purples, and creams, give the stems a fresh diagonal cut and pop them in a clean vase with lukewarm water. Strip off any leaves that would sit below the waterline (they get sulky and rot). Change the water every two days, and they’ll perfume your kitchen or bedroom with a honey-sweet, slightly spicy scent for over a week.

Now, for some flower-power fun: go beyond the vase.

  • Tiny bouquet favours: Tie small bunches with jute or ribbon, and place one at each dinner plate. Instant garden party.
  • Flower confetti: Pull off the individual petals and let them dry on a tray for a day or two. Mix with a few other dried blooms (lavender, rose) and toss at a celebratory brunch. Edible? Not quite, but wildly photogenic.
  • Pressed flower art: Place blossoms between sheets of wax paper inside a heavy book. After a week, use them to decorate cards, notebooks, or even a plain lampshade. You’ll feel like a Victorian botanist, but with better lighting.
  • Floating bowl centrepiece: Fill a shallow glass bowl with water, float the flower heads (without stems), and add a few tea lights. It’s low-effort, high-impact—and your dinner guests will think you hired a florist.

No cooking recipes here (lathyrus is not for eating—keep it for your eyes and nose), but this flower gives you permission to slow down, snip a little beauty, and fill your home with the kind of joy that doesn’t come from a supermarket. Go on—pick yourself a sweet pea day.